What norm did you decide to break? 
 
 
Was it a formal or informal norm you were breaking? 
 
 
What were   your thoughts, concerns, and feelings about breaking the norm before you   broke it?
 
 
What were   your behaviors or actions while breaking the norm? Discuss what happened   during the experience.
 
 
How did   you feel while breaking the norm?
 
 
How did others   react when you broke the norm?
 
 
How did the   reaction reinforce or not reinforce the norm?
 
 
What did you learn about yourself or others from this experience?